Eric Smith was served at his girlfriend's apartment and holed himself up in a nearby apartment before State Police negotiators and his family talked into surrendering.
Two coaches and other players not charged in the incident had also been suspended from the Schalick High School wrestling team following the incident involving a broomstick.
Schalick High School will not start the season on Saturday at the Pine Barrens Tournament as an investigation of students and staff continues by State Police.